GOSSIP GIRL, FADING FLOWER

happy friday! what i am doing now? i don't have class and yeah..blogging..blogging..it's a pretty tense week and I'm having my time for blogging just a little time..from now on i will try to write in english to improve my english writing, correct me if i'm wrong. i love the gossip girl tv series, well, i'm not really watch it in tv but i do have their downloaded series. it's pretty fun to watch the manhattan scandalous life. yeah, i don't think that i can adapt with their glamorous life but, this show showed to me how they learn from mistakes and how to survive in a glamorous life without being somebody else. just be you. their friendship also amazed me.

i remembered how i was to be someone else. it's kind of pressure when you are entering the bigger crowd with a lots of people want to see the best from you. then i meet this beautiful young lady who is way more perfect than me. we used to be friends somehow, but she always want to win. she's beauty with a brain. she can manipulate the situation just to achieve what she wants. me? maybe i just like to be me, but it turns out somehow i would like to overshadow her. somehow i would like to be her. always win. my mistakes is i don't have power of networking. but she have. and it turns out she's not talking to me until now. i'm wondering somehow but i chose to live with what i have at that time. but then i realized, i have something more powerful than her. a friendship. i got friends which is way more better than her. and she? lots of people be friends with her just for the benefits that they can get. doubt me i'm wrong. but you'll see one day. when you have nothing anymore. i don't own any revenge on her. truthfully, i'm talking about the reality that people around you will go away when you are nothing. but, let's just hope that it won't happen on her.

your beauty is like a flower, it will fade when the time is come

fading flower..fading flower...i used to think of her when i heard this song. again, it's a meaningful song yunalis!! i dedicated this Fading Flower to all queen bees!! have a great weekend everyone!

SALAM MAAL HIJRAH

assalamualaikum. alhamdulillah..tiba sudah tahun baru Islam yang ke 1433 Hijrah. Marilah sama-sama umat Islam semua melakukan lebih lebih dan lebih lagi kebaikkan dalam hidup kita. Jom, sama-samalah kita memanjatkan doa akhir tahun dan awal tahun.

KLIK SINI UNTUK DOA AKHIR TAHUN DAN AWAL TAHUN

insyallah, semoga tahun ini membawa lebih kebaikkan kepada saya dan saudara-saudari semua :)

BULLY

i would like to direct your attention on this issue. it may looks so simple, but many people are dying because of this. let me explain what is bully. bully can be defined as 

"when someone keeps doing or saying things to have power over another person"

saying bad things about other people is considered as verbal bullying. you,you and you yang memang suke sangat nak mengata nak mengeji orang, memang rasa korang kuat. korang ade ramai pengikut yang boleh back up korang sesuka hati. ape salah orang yg kau buli tu? dia ade kacau hidup kau ke? biarlah dia freak pun, suka hati die lah nak buat ape. i mean, hello, get a life bro! korang takde keje laen ke selain dari nak mengganggu gugat hidup orang lain. aku memang marah kalau ckp pasal isu ni. still, isu buli ni adalah satu perkara serius yang patut diambil kira oleh semua pihak. 

kenape aku cakap patut? sebab buli ni boleh menyebabkan orang nak bunuh diri. one of my friend, disebabkan oleh a group of people yang tak habis2 suke melontarkan sindiran-sindiran pada dia, semalam dah nak commit suicide. dah nak. what the hell is going on people? are you really enjoy bila org yang kau buli tu bunuh diri sebab kau?? time tu baru kau nak menyesal?? or..kau bangga kot org boleh bunuh diri sebab kau. si pembuli sekalian, once korang dah aniaya hidup orang lain, selagi org yang kau buli tu tak maafkan kau, dunia akhirat korang ingat korang lepas?

bukti, aku pernah dengar satu kisah, pembuli dan dibuli. perempuan. dua2 study di salah sebuah ipta. ipta uolls, heh. si pembuli ni memang suke laa cakap, sindir yang bukan-bukan kat  yang dibuli ni. smpai laa satu kelas pulaukan dia. bila diorang masing-masing dah habes study, dah bekerjaya, dan dah berkeluarga. si pembuli ni, Allah memang nak duga barang kali, dikurniakan seorang anak yang cacat. you know why? Allah tu Maha Adil. Dulu memang merasa seronok tengok orang sengsara kerana dia. Sekarang? Dugaan yang tak kurang hebatnya datang pada dia. Si pembuli ni mule sedar, salah dan silap yang telah dilakukan. Dia cuba cari balik org yang dia pernah buli dulu utk mintak maaf. Tapi takde siape pun tahu kat mana dia sekarang. Dia iklankan kat paper. Macam2 cara..still, dia tak jumpa jugak. what happen now to her, no one knows. It's too late to ask for forgiveness.

Tolonglah, saya merayu pada anda semua. Say no to bully! Semua ni takkan terjadi kalau kita sama-sama mencegah. Kalau anda just baca entri sy without doing anything, just feel sorry to the victim, sampai bila2 pun isu ni tak selesai. Anda boleh membantu dengan cara:

1) Bila ada orang cuba nak hasut korang untuk buli jugak, say no, dan pulaukan balik orang tersebut.

2) Bila nampak ada orang kena buli, beramai-ramai pergi serang si pembuli tu. Jangan takut nak berdepan dengan mereka.

Spread this awareness. Mungkin sekarang korang tak kena, tapi who knows, orang yang terdekat dengan kita pun boleh kena.Kepada yang dibuli. Korang ada cara jugak sebenarnya.

1) Stand up! Don't let anyone grab away your happiness!

2) Speak up, tell them you hate them doing that to you.

3) Block je si pembuli tu dari facebook or twitter korang, tak payah sibuk2 pergi stalk ape yang diorang kutuk pasal korang.

Korang ade life korang. Kalau ade pun orang yang nak kacau hidup korang, you are the person that let them in to meddle your life. Meh, saya nak share sikit Phobe Prince, mangsa buli. And and also this Cyberbully